Changing your name brings up dozens of questions — we've heard them all. Whether you're getting married, getting divorced, or just want to change your name for personal reasons, this name change FAQ covers the most common questions we get from people using NewLastName.org. We'll walk you through everything from costs and timelines to the specific documents you need.
The cost varies by your situation, but most people spend $50-300 total. Marriage name changes are cheapest — just the cost of certified marriage certificates ($10-25 each) and new documents like your passport ($130 for renewal). Court-ordered name changes cost more, typically $150-400 in filing fees plus certified copies. Social Security and DMV updates are usually free, though your new license costs $20-50.
Most name changes take 6-12 weeks from start to finish. You'll get your new Social Security card in 2-4 weeks, your passport in 6-11 weeks, and your driver's license the same day you visit the DMV. Court-ordered name changes take longer — expect 8-16 weeks total, including 6-8 weeks for the court petition to be approved. The key is updating agencies in the right order: Social Security first, then passport, DMV, and finally banks and credit cards.
No, you don't need a lawyer for any type of name change. Marriage and divorce name changes use your marriage certificate or divorce decree — no additional legal help required. Even court-ordered name changes can be done on your own using the proper petition forms, which vary by state. NewLastName.org fills out all your federal forms automatically, and we provide state-specific guidance for court petitions. Save the legal fees and handle it yourself.
You have broad freedom, but there are some limits. You can't choose a name that's intentionally confusing (like a number or symbol), already trademarked, or meant to defraud others. Most courts also reject names that are obscene or could harm a child's welfare. Beyond those restrictions, you can pick any name that feels right to you — whether that's your spouse's surname, a hyphenated combination, or something completely different.
Yes, having a criminal record doesn't automatically disqualify you from changing your name. However, courts will look more closely at your petition to ensure you're not trying to avoid legal obligations or hide from creditors. Be prepared to explain your reasons honestly during your court hearing. Some states require a background check as part of the petition process. If you're currently on probation or parole, check with your officer first — they may need to approve the change.
A legal name change updates your name in government records and official documents — your Social Security card, passport, driver's license, and birth certificate all show your new name. Just using a different name socially (a nickname or preferred name) doesn't change your legal identity. For things like employment, banking, travel, and taxes, you need to use your legal name unless you've officially changed it through marriage, divorce, or a court petition.
No, changing your name after marriage is completely optional in all 50 states. You can keep your prior name, take your spouse's name, hyphenate both names, or even create a new combined surname. Some couples choose for both partners to take a new name together. Your marriage name change is entirely your choice — there's no legal requirement either way.
Yes, hyphenating is allowed in all states and is a popular choice for people who want to honor both family names. You can hyphenate in any order — Smith-Jones or Jones-Smith — whatever feels right to you. Just be consistent across all your documents and prepare for some extra paperwork, since hyphenated names are longer and sometimes cause issues with computer systems that have character limits.
You can start immediately after your wedding ceremony, as long as you have your certified marriage certificate. Most couples get their certificate within 1-2 weeks of the wedding, depending on their state's processing time. Don't wait too long though — some agencies prefer that you update your name within a reasonable timeframe after marriage. There's no official deadline, but starting within 2-3 months keeps things straightforward.
No, your marriage certificate is all you need for standard marriage name changes like taking your spouse's surname or hyphenating. However, if you want to create a completely new last name that's different from both of your current names, most states require a court petition. The marriage certificate only covers traditional name changes — anything more creative needs court approval first.
Yes, you can return to your prior name (often called "maiden name") after divorce in all 50 states. If your divorce decree includes name restoration language, you can use it just like a marriage certificate to update your documents. If the name change wasn't included in your divorce, you'll need to file a separate court petition. Our divorce name change guide covers both scenarios and walks you through the process.
You have two options: request an amended divorce decree from the court that handled your divorce, or file a separate name change petition. An amended decree is usually faster and cheaper if your divorce was recent, but many people prefer filing a new petition since it's more straightforward. The court petition process typically takes 6-8 weeks and costs $150-400 in filing fees, depending on your state.
No, you can keep your married name after divorce if you prefer — there's no requirement to change it back. Many people keep their married name for professional reasons, because they have children with that surname, or simply because they've grown attached to it. You can also wait and change it later through a court petition. The choice is entirely yours, and you can make it at any time.
Most states only allow you to return to a previously held name (like your prior surname) through the divorce decree itself. If you want to choose a brand new name that you've never used before, you'll typically need to file a separate court petition for a legal name change. Some judges may allow it during the divorce proceedings, but it's more common to handle it as a separate matter.
You need a court order when you're changing your name for reasons other than marriage or divorce, or when you want a name that's not covered by your marriage/divorce documents. This includes gender identity name changes, personal preference changes, or creating a new surname that's different from both spouses' names. You also need court approval for minor name changes (with some exceptions) and adult adoptions. Each state has its own petition process and requirements.
Most name change hearings last 5-15 minutes and are fairly routine. The judge will ask why you want to change your name, confirm you're not trying to avoid debts or legal obligations, and verify your identity. If you have all your paperwork in order and a reasonable explanation, the hearing itself is straightforward. However, getting to the hearing takes 6-8 weeks in most states, since you need to file your petition, complete background checks, and sometimes publish a notice in the newspaper.
Judges typically ask: "Why do you want to change your name?", "Are you trying to avoid any debts or legal obligations?", "Have you ever been convicted of a felony?", and "Do you understand this is a permanent legal change?" They want to ensure you have legitimate reasons and aren't using the name change to defraud anyone. Be honest and straightforward in your answers — most judges approve routine name change requests without issue.
This depends on your state and sometimes your specific situation. About half of US states require newspaper publication for court-ordered name changes, while others have eliminated this requirement. Some states allow you to request a waiver if publication would put you at risk (common for domestic violence survivors or transgender individuals). The newspaper notice typically runs for 3-4 weeks and costs $50-150. Check your state's specific requirements when filing your petition.
Always start with Social Security first — your SSN is the foundation for everything else. Next, update your passport, then your driver's license and voter registration. After that, tackle your bank accounts, credit cards, employer, and insurance. Finally, update the Post Office, utilities, and subscription services. This order ensures each agency can verify your identity using documents you've already updated.
You'll need proof of your name change (marriage certificate, divorce decree, or court order), proof of identity (current driver's license or passport), and proof of US citizenship or legal status (birth certificate, passport, or naturalization certificate). Each agency has slightly different requirements — Social Security is strictest about document types, while banks are usually more flexible. Bring certified copies, not photocopies, for government agencies.
Some parts of the process can be done online, but not everything. You can fill out most forms online (including through NewLastName.org), apply for passport renewals by mail, and update many bank and credit card accounts online. However, Social Security requires an in-person visit, and DMV name changes usually need an office visit too. Court petitions must be filed in person or by mail. Think of it as online prep work followed by in-person visits to complete the process.
Get at least 10 certified copies — you'll need more than you think. Social Security, passport, DMV, banks, credit cards, insurance, employer, and investment accounts may all want to keep a copy. Some will accept photocopies after seeing the original, but many require certified copies for their records. It's cheaper to order extra copies upfront than to request more later. For court orders, your court will provide certified copies when your name change is approved.
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Last verified: 2026-03-30